My journey to becoming a doula

I live in Godalming, Surrey with my husband Adie. We have two sons, Henry and Corry, born in 1995 and 1997. I gave birth to them both at the Royal Surrey County Hospital. Henry arrived with lots of intervention (argh!) and Corry naturally.  It’s only with hindsight I realise how little I knew about pregnancy and childbirth and that I did have choice at every step of the way. I was extremely positive about giving birth before my first, after all, it just happens right?! I took a passive role in both births because at the time I had little information and hadn’t found my voice.

Raising our children has been the greatest pleasure and achievement in my life. Having been a doula for a few friends, and with my sons grown up,  I felt in a strong position to support and nurture others on their unique journey into parenthood, so I became a certified  doula, registered with Doula UK.  Offering encouragement, guidance and friendship in my capacity as a doula is an honour and the miracle of birth and new life never cease to amaze and inspire me.

I carry around the experience gained as a mother myself but also from my years working in business and learning how to communicate effectively.

I keep my knowledge fresh and up-to-date with regular study days and workshops, however my source of eternal wonder and learning comes from all families that I have had the pleasure to work with and know.  My personal approach is to be intuitive and respectful of people’s  differences of opinion and I’m always open minded.  The way I live doesn’t influence the way I support my clients. I relish supporting and helping them discover their own individual, unique and wonderful way of birthing and raising a family.

I’m a very good communicator, trustworthy, punctual, flexible, committed and I’m happy to fit in with you and your family dynamics.  My outlook on life is very positive and I adore meeting people and watching new families flourish.

Outside of work, I love spending time with family and friends, my dogs and cats, laughter, the wonderful aroma and taste of good coffee, a glass of chilled white wine, running, walking, exploring our beautiful countryside, travelling, food, reading, art, doodling, music, film and theatre.